What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence, without a standard type and fixed outcome. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with respect for (mutual) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The result is often a wonderful physical, mental well-being. Typically, the receiver is extremely unwinded, splendidly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Most touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The recipient is also present, and gets active and also feels (eventually) from the heart.
Complete of attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and existence. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are in fact out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a fixed outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be different. You never understand how it will end up. It is not the method or the preferred sequence of rubbing that is necessary, it has to do with exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the minute? What is good for her/him? Love understands what to do, love constantly has an appropriate reaction. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is needed. Adequate is that the provider is present and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason often take a really surprising course. Everything fits into a larger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the very first action in an excellent advancement.
How to get the best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a very long time, naturally, but given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver constantly must be ensured. Loving attunement constantly comes.
Set clear limits ahead of time
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is likewise completely okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Activating and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. Of course, constantly with regard for (shared) boundaries. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important function again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Usually resulting in a wonderful physical, mental wellness
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically good, often tasty. We, for that reason, welcome you to completely delight in getting ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of types of massage. Obviously, all massages have certain practices and techniques in typical. There is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (focused on enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (focused on healing).
Not Therapy
Well due to the fact that you are really incredibly energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is an occupation apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stick out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is need complimentary, don't press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* When in a while ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Construct in combination (rest) minutes.
Need totally free.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't attempt to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Regard boundaries, set clear limits in advance. Our masseuses are mainly really open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is website always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can show up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Step by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure noises) and offer integration moments (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest don't hurry to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (sometimes completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or perhaps vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery effect. It is possible that clogs, psychological injuries pertain to the surface area. There might be an emotional release, consisting of physical responses such as shaking, sobbing, shocks. Despite the fact that tantra massage is not the like healing, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you learn what it resembles to enjoy yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which offers an incredibly liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a terrific physical, psychological well-being (of both).